देवर (devar)

noun A kinship term: a husband's younger brother. It carries real cultural weight in Hindi-speaking family life, well beyond its plain dictionary meaning.
Sense 1 : husband's younger brother
noun, masculine
Frequency: medium
Cultural Note: In North Indian family life, the relationship between a woman and her देवर (devar) is traditionally one of the warmest and most playful in the household -- full of teasing, joking, and mutual affection, quite unlike the more formal relationship with a जेठ (jeth, husband's elder brother), where more respect and distance is expected. This contrast (younger = playful, elder = respectful) is baked into the vocabulary itself, so learning देवर (devar) alongside जेठ (jeth) together makes the system click.
Common Mistakes: 1) Learners often use one blanket English word 'brother-in-law' and lose the distinction Hindi insists on: देवर (devar) is specifically the husband's *younger* brother, while जीजा (jiijaa) or साला (saalaa) cover completely different in-law relationships (sister's husband, wife's brother). Mixing these up in front of family is a classic learner slip. 2) Do not confuse with भाई (bhaaii, 'brother'), which is used for one's own sibling, not an in-law.
Sample Sentences:
मेरा देवर मुझसे बहुत मज़ाक करता है। My brother-in-law (my husband's younger brother) teases me a lot.
(meraa devar mujhse bahut mazaak kartaa hai।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Habitual -- Tense: Present -- Voice: Active
कल मेरा देवर घर आया था। My brother-in-law came home yesterday.
(kal meraa devar ghar aayaa thaa।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Perfective -- Tense: Past -- Voice: Active
उसका देवर शादी में सबसे ज़्यादा नाच रहा था। Her brother-in-law was dancing the most at the wedding.
(uskaa devar shaadii men sabse zyaadaa naach rahaa thaa।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Continuous -- Tense: Past -- Voice: Active
अगर मेरा देवर यहाँ होता, तो वह ज़रूर मदद करता। If my brother-in-law were here, he would definitely help.
(agar meraa devar yahaan hotaa, to vah zaroor madad kartaa।)
Register: Neutral -- Mood: Counterfactual -- Aspect: Habitual -- Voice: Active
देवर जी, आज मेरे साथ बाज़ार चलिए ना! Brother-in-law, come to the market with me today, come on!
(devar jii, aaj mere saath baazaar chalie naa!)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Imperative -- Voice: Active
भाभी और देवर के बीच का रिश्ता अक्सर बहुत हल्का-फुल्का होता है। The relationship between a sister-in-law and her devar is often very light-hearted.
(bhaabhii aur devar ke biich kaa rishtaa aksar bahut halkaa-phulkaa hotaa hai।)
Register: Neutral -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Habitual -- Tense: Present -- Voice: Active
शायद मेरा देवर इस हफ्ते हमसे मिलने आए। Maybe my brother-in-law will come to visit us this week.
(shaayad meraa devar is haphte hamse milne aae।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Subjunctive -- Voice: Active
मेरे देवर की शादी में सारे रस्मों में बहुत मज़ा आया था। All the rituals at my brother-in-law's wedding were a lot of fun.
(mere devar kii shaadii men saare rasmon men bahut mazaa aayaa thaa।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Perfective -- Tense: Past -- Voice: Active
उसे उसके देवर द्वारा हर होली पर रंग लगाया जाता है। She gets colored by her brother-in-law every Holi.
(use uske devar dvaaraa har holii par rang lagaayaa jaataa hai।)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Habitual -- Tense: Present -- Voice: Passive
देवर के साथ हंसी-मज़ाक का रिश्ता जेठ के साथ के गंभीर रिश्ते से बिलकुल अलग होता है। The playful relationship with a devar is quite different from the more serious relationship with a jeth (husband's elder brother).
(devar ke saath hansii-mazaak kaa rishtaa jeth ke saath ke gambhiir rishte se bilkul alag hotaa hai।)
Register: Neutral -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Habitual -- Tense: Present -- Voice: Active
क्या तुम्हारा देवर अभी भी दिल्ली में रहता है? Does your brother-in-law still live in Delhi?
(kyaa tumhaaraa devar abhii bhii dillii men rahtaa hai?)
Register: Casual -- Mood: Indicative -- Aspect: Habitual -- Tense: Present -- Voice: Active
Morphology
Noun
(sg.m.direct): देवर (devar)
(sg.m.oblique): देवर (devar)
(pl.m.direct): देवर (devar)
(pl.m.oblique): देवरों (devron)